Saturday, December 19, 2009

Kids and their Strength


Yesterday I took our oldest, Nora,  to her annual doctor's appointment and what this one "special" was she got 4 shots--yes 4 total.  So, leading up to her appointment we didn't say anything about the shots intentionally to not scare her.  When we arrived at the office and the nurse checked her out and we were waiting for the doctor I started talking to her about the shots and what they were going to do and that she would feel a "pinch" in her arm.  Well, the time came and the nurse brought in a tray with four needles  and my heart was pounding and at the same time trying to help keep Nora calm.  The nurse jumped right in and gave her two in one arm and two in the other and Nora was amazing...no crying, no wimpering it was awesome.  She was so brave and strong and I was very proud of her. 

After we left the doctor's office we headed for a celebration dinner at McDonalds and then off to the Zoo Lights for a daddy-daughter date night.  We had so much fun looking at all of the lights and walking around the zoo.  I am a very proud daddy of Nora, and we had a great date night together!

What are some of your stories of how your kids have made you proud by showing their strength and courage?

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Looking at Your Past for Help


Could you imagine facing a man 9 foot tall in full armor garb getting ready to destroy you as a teenager?  Everytime I read the story of David and Goliath (1 Samuel 17) I try and put myself in his shoes.  Still can't quite get the magnitude of his situation and we will probably never truly grasp the pressure and daunting task of walking onto that battle field to fight.

But what allowed David to take those steps toward Goliath?  What pushed him to approach the King of Israel and say 'he was going to fight the giant?'  A lot had to do with two things, first was a reliance of God for protection and strength but it is the second that I want to focus on--it was David's past experiences that gave him courage to step onto the battle field with Goliath.

God had delivered and protected David from a lion and bear while watching over his father's sheep in the past and it seems somewhat surreal to just gloss over that comment...a lion and a bear.  I don't know about you but those are two animals that I really don't want to encounter at any time in my life.  But both times God gave David the strength to take them down and kill the lion and the bear.

Taking that past experience gave David confidence to approach the king and go to battle with Goliath and his past gave him strength and courage for the future!

How has your past experiences helped you to be courageous and have strength to take risks and fight your giants?

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Flexibility is the Best Ability

Growing up a coach told me that the best ability was flexibility, well as I sat there in the circle of 20 other guys stretching I didn't quite understand what he was getting at. I figured, "I can touch my toes, isn't that good enough?"

A few years later I heard that statement again and I understood it in a completely different perspective. I realized what my coach was getting at-one needs to be able to adapt to the differing circumstances of a game and be able to change on the fly and through those changes come out successful. In the game of soccer there are no time outs and in each 45 minute half there is multiple opportunities for change. The necessity for each player to adapt and be flexible based on what the game gives him or her. It is a constant changing affect (oxymoron intended)

What and how does this apply to our spiritual lives you might be asking. Well Dave Gibbons writes in his book The Monkey and the Fish that "If there's one quality that matters most to the fate of the church in the twenty-first century, it's adaptability." The ability to change or be flexible throughout different circumstances is the one quality the matters the most for the church. Surprising...maybe, but dig deeper, below the surface. Nothing is cut and dry, black and white when it comes to our culture-today even the notion of truth, right and wrong, good and evil are being questioned. One needs to understand that Jesus is the True Constant and as we meet, greet, and treat others is not a 'one-size-fits-all' approach. Even Jesus talked and interacted differently in different situations and circumstances.

How do you live your life? Are you stuck in your ways unable to move? DO you refuse to change or be flexible to differing situations?
Or how have you been flexible and adaptable to life's changes? Share your story...

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Character Qualities of an Athlete

How much is character a necessity to be successful at athletics? Where and at what point does what occurs off the field just as important as on the field of play?

Yesterday I was playing in a pick-up soccer game and there was a situation where a dispute on a call came up. Well, after the call went my teams way, a player on the other team yelled out "and you call yourself a Christian?" It got me thinking...what does a Christian look like on the field of play? How does a Christian compete athletically and what character qualities make up a great athlete on and off the field? Does one's spirituality impact positively or negatively on the field of play?

Well in the coming months, I am going to be blogging about the life of David and how I believe his life, leadership, and experiences translate into athletics and how those same character qualities he portrayed and lived out would impact greatly an athlete on the field of play.

How about you, what character qualities do you think make a great athlete? And are character qualities necessary for successful athletes?

Friday, September 18, 2009

Spiritual Training vs. Physical Training

As an athlete a lot of what I have learned in sports is transferable to my relationship with Christ. I am amazed at how similar athletics and one's spiritual life travel together. One could talk about the character qualities of a successful athlete-discipline, hard work, perseverance, diligence, dedication, team work and have no problems of talking about those same qualities in regards to one's walk with Jesus. Purely from a training perspective, the necessary to maintain one's physical prowess as an athlete is essential-running, lifting, sport specific training (i.e. tactics, technical etc.). Just as one would "train" spiritually with the disciplines of prayer, Scripture study, fasting, meditations, etc. for followers of Christ is essential to maintain a strong relationship with Jesus. But how much greater is our spiritual training necessary for eternal impact? Our lives are changed and those around us in the here and now as well as in the age to come. Paul encourages Timothy in his first letter with these words, "...train yourself for godliness; for while bodily training is of some value, godliness is of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come."

What type of disciplines have you learned that impact both your physical and spiritual training? How has sports influenced you and your walk with Christ?

1 Timothy 4:6-10

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Looking at the End

I received some good advice as a young leader a number of years ago to "think with the end in mind". This advice has helped me plan out multiple areas of my life: ministry, family goals, relationships, finances and the list goes on...figuring out what I would like to accomplish and set the correct steps to achieve my goals and then being able to follow the vision set as I achieve those goals. Well, I was reminded of this advice this week as I read "Chazown" written by Craig Groeschel. Chazown is the Hebrew word for "vision" and I was reminded for all that I am involved to ask myself 'where am I going?' and 'What am trying to accomplish?' To start the practice of thinking with the end in mind, Mr. Groeschel had the reader begin by writing your epitaph focusing on the way you want it to be.

He gave five statements (p. 27) to help the reader write and italics are my answers,
  • The thing that was most important to me was...leaving a legacy that God was glorified through my life
  • People say I stood for...never settling for the status quo
  • I made a difference in my world by...putting others before me
  • God was glorified because I...picked up my cross daily and followed Him
  • People knew I loved them because...time I took to invest in their lives
  • The reason I expect God to say "well done" is...Love the Lord my God with all my heart, soul, mind and strength.

Have you ever thought with the end in mind and how did that benefit you? How would you answer these questions looking back on your life?

Luke 14:27, Matthew 10:38
Luke 10:27

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Simple Things

I am always amazed at God provides things, even the small things, for people. Whether it be a cup of coffee or a meal or check to cover unpaid bills. I catch myself asking, "really God, you care about me and my small issue? Aren't there thousands of other things You should be dealing with right now?" Why would the God of the universe care if I get a free coffee or pay that one bill that cost $41.23? Than I sit and think and a sense of awe comes over me...the God who created me and everything out there cares about me, little me, a speck in comparison to the rest of the world. While sitting in my office this past week, I had one of these moments and my perspective and view of God grew. I know that I already limit Him in so many ways, but for that moment till now and from now on, my view of how Great and Majestic God is got bigger. I know that my view is still very limited and I will probably never truly grasp how great God is, but for now that view is growing.

Have you ever had one of those moments where you realize that God is so much greater than you thought, that His love and compassion for you and others is not distant but near? That He is taking the initiative with you and pursuing you...the God who created the heavens and the earth even cares about the simple things...

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Pursuit of the Spectacular

Today I was reading "In the Name of Jesus" by Henri Nouwen-a recommended to all by the way! He was talking about how our society pushes individuals to be great, to pursue the spectacular and that anything less isn't good enough or individuals are somehow less than those who are spectacular. To be honest, I struggle with this because I too want to be and do things that are spectacular. I even disguise my desire with Christian words on how I want to do great things for God; and I want to see thousands come to know Christ through my preaching; and if I spoke at conferences I could reach more people. All in the name of doing spectacular things for God.

The temptation, Nouwen states, is equated to an individualistic approach to ministry. Christ himself was also tempted with this same idealogy from the devil while in the desert. In Matthew 4:6, the devil tempts Jesus to "do something spectacular, something that could win Him great applause from the people." (italics added) But Jesus didn't need great applause from the people, He didn't need to be spectacular, He didn't come to prove to the world He had something to say. The temptation to be spectacular is just that, a temptation. Christ responded with "Do not put the Lord your God to the test." (Matt. 4:7)

How do you respond when the temptation to be spectacular arises? How do you deal with the cultural pressure to be great and pursuit of the spectacular?

Henri Nouwen "In the Name of Jesus"
Matthew 4-Temptations of Jesus

Friday, August 7, 2009

Identity Rolercoaster

I am intrigued at how one's identity (including myself) is so tied to the actions and performance of one's life. I see my significance and value a lot of times based how "good" I perform; whether it be in ministry, athletically or social interaction. If I can live a "good" life and more importantly others perceive that I am living a "good" life then I feel good about myself.

This view is SO tainted and the ups and downs of emotions and thoughts is too difficult to bare. If you are a "doer" as I am and tend to take your value and significance based on what you accomplish and who you are is tied to those accomplishments. I want to challenge you with how the Father views you-how He loves you unconditionally regardless of what you do, good or bad. The Father's love never changes based on your actions and when our identity is fixed in Christ that frees us up to live for the Father in the love and grace He has provided.

How have you tied your value and significance to your performance? Do you take your self worth from how you live your life?

2 Corinthians 5:14-15

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

One is NOT enough...

Yesterday I woke up and got ready for the day only to discover, via my wife, that our pipes in the basement were clogged and in need of clearing. So I grabbed my 'snake' and started to work to clear the clog. Well, things were going good until I couldn't put the 'snake' out of the pipes-it was stuck and I pulled and pulled but to no avail!!! I needed help...

In that moment it got me thinking about our walks with Jesus...how often do we try and navigate through the 'pipes' of life to only got stuck and no matter how hard we try we can never get free-stuck solid.

Just like I needed help with my plumbing-even if it was just word of encouragement and support-we all need help from others around us in our spiritual lives. You see, we have been created to live our lives with others; NOT in isolation. It is within community where we grow, strive and flourish-without others around us we get stuck with life's little situations and there is no one to help us out or celebrate in times of joy and success!

Have you ever been 'stuck' in a situation and there was a friend to help you out? Have you ever refused help to break free on your own?

Here's to living life with others and walking through the good, bad and clogged up pipes together!
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

Monday, August 3, 2009

Ever wake up tired...

It is funny how sometimes from a long night's rest you still wake up tired. Not always sure why but for whatever reason you still feel like you need to go back to bed. You sit there and wonder..."I just got a ton of sleep, but I could use some more." I feel like that sometimes with ministry, no matter what has been going on or what God has been doing through the ministry or how God has been using me to experience His kingdom on earth. I just feel exhausted and want to crawl back up to bed and hope for the morning to come again soon. I say to myself, "Jonathan, you should be okay, you haven't done that much to make you tired." Yet I am...

Just now I am thinking about motivation and how it plays an impact on how you feel and the desire to wake up and push through the thick fog of morning...Where's my coffee, back to work!

Monday, May 4, 2009

God in a Box...Does He fit?

It is funny how our culture influences us as Christians, even when the influence is counter to what is true about Jesus and our relationship with Him. Our culture tries to tell us that if we separate everything we will be more organized, structured and more efficient with work, family and life as a whole. This also includes our faith in Christ—so that is what we have done. God is now in His own compartment along with everything else that we attempt to balance and manage each day. But God can’t be put into a box only to be confined within its corners and that is what I have been challenged with these past few months. God is bigger than we could ever imagine, so allow Him to be integrated within every aspect of your lives—not just one’s faith/spiritual compartment.
Yesterday I was talking with Ryan about this subject and he has been struggling with this idea for the past few months. He said, “it is hard for me to rely on God in areas of my life where I am gifted. When times get tough I usually just try harder and push through it. God usually isn’t on my mind, I just focus on myself and work harder.” That sediment is ‘normal’ in our culture, just work harder and YOU can do it, think positively and YOU will accomplish great things. God isn’t even in the picture let alone thought of during the process. It is difficult to allow God to take control over every part of our lives and as we wrestle through life and what this looks like, we all tend to fight back.
Alex shared with me a about a month ago how he views God and sports and has realized that most, if not all, of his life he has never allowed God into his athletic life. While playing sports year round, that time of his day has been his and he was motivated by family, friends and his coaches—but God was never there until recently. About a week later Alex and I were talking about how God needs to be integrated within football and his competition. Alex said that for the first time in his life he was free to compete to glorify and worship God with his abilities. He has always been concerned about what his coaches and teammates thought about his performance and not until this spring has been able to compete and play without worrying about there opinions. He said, all he was concerned with was how God viewed him and his performance athletically and that perspective has freed him up to play at a higher level.
He and I talked through that God's love and view of us never changes based on our performance. Our favor with the coach, playing time, how the fans view us can change and does all the time; but our God in heaven's perspective of who we are never ebbs and flows with the coming tide. It stays constant, which allows us as athletes to compete in the same manner-consistently at our highest level.

Spiritual Athletes...Bigger and Better?

So I was thinking yesterday while mowing the lawn...I have a good size yard and mow it all with a push mower, so I had some time on my hands. I was thinking about sports and athletes and wondering if and how much the spiritual side (specifically Christianity) of an athlete affects and effects one's performance. As I was thinking, there continued to be a resounding "yes" in my head; but I was struggling to fully answer the question "why?" Every athlete has some sort of God-given ability and talent and then from there one's environment, motivation, coaching, personality etc. come into play and the outcome could land anywhere from a recreational player to an athlete at the top of the professional "food-chain". So again I asked myself how much if at all does one's faith in Jesus Christ (again focusing on Christianity), impact his/her ability to perform at one's highest level athletically?

The more I thought through my questions two words continued to stay at the forefront of my mind: Consistency and Motivation. Consistency is the driving force for perfection athletically...look at the top athletes around the world and you will see that they are able to perform at the highest level day in and day out and that is what makes them great at what they do in sports. The longevity of an athlete and his/her ability to perform at a peak level is crucial to their sustainability and performance over the long haul. If you are able to perform to perfection or close to it in your sport on a consistent basis, you are the envy of all others. Or at the very least the standard that everyone else is shooting for and measuring themselves (just look to the NBA playoffs ie LeBron James, Kobe etc.).

More thoughts later on Consistency...I want to move on to Motivation because I believe it has a direct correlation to Consistency in sports. The consistency that athletes are pursuing comes from continually being motivated to perform at high levels, eating correctly, training both the mind and the body, watching film of yourself and others and the list goes on. What is the motivating factor in pushing one's body to the limits? Well, there are plenty of reasons: family, coaches, money, fame, athletic success and the list goes on-but what if all of that is not enough?

I believe that motivation and consistency when placed in the wrong areas can produce some good things-at times very successful-however, I would also say that it is short lived and that the ceiling can be pushed higher if one's motivation is placed specifically in one area. More specifically in Jesus Christ. For athletes motivation and the desire to perform at high levels comes and goes; mainly to the object/person (s)/goal one is pursuing. But what if that one thing that is motivating you never goes away, it is always before you and will always be present? No matter how many goals you achieve, the number of awards attained, the one motivating factor still remains. Not laughing in your face, or negatively berating you and your lack of success; but rather just the opposite-saying you are righteous, holy and perfect. The yoke of performance anxiety is removed and you are freed up and motivated to compete at an higher level than ever dreamed was possible because the ONE that is motivating you is ever consistent and steadfast before you. Driving you to consistency and allowing you to perform to your greatest level of ability.

Doesn't that sound great? As an athlete it is freeing as well (I will address this issue later this month). Consistency and Motivation-the two factors needed to perform at your highest level-that one's faith in Jesus Christ bring to the forefront in your competition.

Monday, January 26, 2009

Melting Ice with Salt...

This past week I received an e-mail from a close friend of mine in regards to sidewalk salt to melt ice on walk ways. Instead of me going into detail about it, I want you to read his challenging words...


"Leading up to this newsletter, I planned on writing about random observations. I observed something that proved to be very interesting – salt on a sidewalk! Not only salt on a sidewalk, but too much salt on a sidewalk. Interesting observation huh? I bet you can’t wait to read the rest of this newsletter! So there I was at Caribou Coffee in early January sipping on some coffee and eating a brownie I took with me to eat…yes Caribou probably frowns on me bringing food to their coffee shop, but I don’t really care! As I looked out the window I saw an enormous amount of salt on their sidewalk. The salt was put down a day earlier for a winter storm that produced more rain than anything else. The salt was spread out, better yet dumped, so heavily that you were walking on salt instead of a sidewalk. What a waste I thought to myself. All of that expensive salt uselessly sitting there. It was then a verse in the Bible came to my mind about being the “salt of the earth.” I never thought much about this verse nor did it ever really grab my attention…until now. In both Matthew and Luke, Jesus uses an illustration to depict the necessity of disciples (i.e. Christians) living out a real Christian life. Jesus sets the stage leading up to the scriptures in Matthew 5:13 and Luke 14:34-35 by making those around him aware of what it meant to follow him. Jesus preached a message on these occasions more piercing than most congregations hear on a Sunday morning. His message included Christians being persecuted, taking up their own cross, and denying their selfish desires…in essence becoming slaves to God. Yes, slaves. In the New Testament the Greek word generally translated “servant” could be translated “slave” for a total of 133 times. Our English translations over the years
elected to use servant in lieu of slave for some good intentioned reasons. (It is worth noting that slavery in antiquity was much different than the horrid racial slavery we have been exposed to). Followers of Jesus understood that by believing in him they became a slave to Jesus – their Master, Lord, Savior, and God. I bring up this understanding of how first century Christians recognized themselves as slaves because people (including myself) need to hear and understand what it means to claim the Christian name. Christians have been bought with a price – Jesus crucified. Christians are no longer their own lord or master. We desire to be autonomous and submit to no one, but that is unacceptable once you become a Christian. A Christian has to recognize a new lord in their life and this will undoubtedly change their life. It is becoming more and more apparent churches in the United States are comprised of stagnant, immature Christians. Studies abound supporting the claim that as a whole Christians are not growing in their faith nor being transformed into disciples of Jesus. What does all of this have to do with me seeing too much salt on the sidewalk? Read Matthew 5:13 and Luke 14:34-35 below:

“You are the salt of the earth, but if salt
lost its taste, how shall its saltiness be restored? It is no longer good for
anything except to be thrown out and trampled under people’s feet.” (Matthew
5:13)
“Salt is good, but if salt has lost its taste, how shall its
saltiness be restored? It is of no use either for the soil or for the manure
pile. It is thrown away. He who has ears to hear, let him hear.” (Luke
14:34-35)
Jesus made it clear that “Christians” who have lost the true meaning of who they are in Christ no longer do justice to the Christian name and might as well be thrown away. What a startling image and a waste. As I look back and see all of that salt wasting away on the sidewalk, I have to ask myself whether I am the salt on the ground being “trampled under people’s feet?” If I call myself a Christian, do I still “taste” like a Christian? Asking ourselves these questions and taking inventory of who we are in Christ is no small order. I don’t care if you claim to have been a Christian for all your life, for the last thirty years, or for the last five; “he who has ears to hear, let him hear” this – if you are a Christian then you are to whole heartily devote yourself to following and serving the Lord Jesus Christ. In the book of Revelations (3:14-22), Jesus reminded those in the church of Laodicea the same thing. Jesus was rebuking them of their staleness and said “I know your works: you are neither cold nor hot. I wish that you were either cold or hot! So, because you are lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth.” If I ended here, there would be little hope for those of us who acknowledge we are like that useless salt on the sidewalk outside of Caribou getting trampled on. But God wants to restore our saltiness, and he wanted those in the church of Laodicea to start growing out of their lukewarm following. This is what Jesus said to them and what he says to us – “behold I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and eat with him, and he with me. He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches.” I didn’t make a resolution this year, but I am recommitting myself to understand and live out
what it means to be a real Christian. May you also rise up to the task for much is at stake in understanding how we so called Christians are to live as disciples and slaves to our Lord, Master, Savior, and God…and on the lighter side - Friend. I hope to continue this pointed and challenging discussion on what it means to be a real Christian in the following newsletters. The stage has been set though, and my prayer is that we start examining ourselves in the midst of communing with Jesus."

Let me know your thoughts, I would love to hear your insight to these words!!!